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A Gigantic Step Toward Kenya

We are beyond excited to share that we have officially been appointed as missionaries to Kenya!!

Wait, didn’t we already know we would be going to Kenya? Yes, that has been our hope, but after lots of questions and paperwork and applications and a weekend of interviews in Indiana, we have been accepted with an organization that will be working alongside us to actually get us there. They will be coordinating all of our training, guiding our fundraising, and working out the mountain of details that a family of four needs to take care of when moving halfway around the world. We thought it might be easiest to answer lots of the questions around this big announcement through a little Q&A session. So, here it goes.

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Q: What organization did you end up choosing?

A: Now that it’s official, we’re thrilled to be able to say that we’ll be signing with World Gospel Mission (WGM), an organization that has missionaries all over the world. This is the same organization I spent a year and a half with in Honduras beginning in 2002. I’ve stayed in close contact with many of the missionaries I met during my time there and have been able to see their relationship with WGM. We love all that the organization encompasses and their vision for the future of Kenyan medicine. Personally, I am blown away with the way God has orchestrated the path to WGM. I had no idea 12 years ago that I would end up working with them in this capacity!

Q: Do you still plan on going with the Horns?

A: Absolutely!! They’ve been accepted with WGM, too!

Q: When do you think you’ll be leaving for Kenya?

A: It is our hope to leave in early 2016. Of course, we hold our timeline with an open hand, knowing that things can change at any time.

 Q: Why can’t you leave sooner?

A: As much as we would love to be able to head back to Kenya right now, we have a lot to get done before we can make the big move. First, Pete needs to finish his two-year contract in the emergency room. We’ve wanted to have those two years of a steady income in order to work on paying off our student loans (his medical school and my grad school) as well as our house.  A second reason is that there is a lot of training we’ll go through before moving. Training will cover things like raising funds, educating our kids in another country, and working cross-culturally. We’ll officially begin all of this training in January 2015. It typically takes about a year to go from that point to the mission field.

 

Q: Do you plan to live in Kenya for a long time?

A: We do. We hope to be in Kenya for as long as we feel God is still using us there, which we pray will be a very long time.

Q: Where exactly will you be living in Kenya?

A: We’re still working out the details of where we’ll be. We have a few ideas, but a lot can happen between now and when we actually move. Overall, we’d love to be in a rural community with a hospital that trains new doctors.

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Q: Do you have to buy your own house when you get there?

A: Nope, that will be taken care of for us by WGM. It’s possible that, in the future, we’ll want to build our own house, as some of our friends have done, but that’s a ways down the road. We do plan to keep our house in Duluth and rent it while we’re away, though we plan to sell most of what we own before leaving for Kenya.

Q: Will you be homeschooling the kids?

A: Yes. Living in a small, rural community will require me to teach the kids at home. This is very common for missionary kids. We want to make sure they are learning everything they need to know to transition back to the States well in the future and to possibly attend college here someday. I have no doubt that Ella will keep us on our toes with homeschooling and I’m so looking forward to teaching Sam in a style that will fit him best. Because of this, I’m very thankful to have my Masters of Education and some amount of special education experience, as well. I will be attending specialized training before our move so that we can meet our children’s educational needs the very best ways possible. No only will I be homeschooling our kids, but it is quite possible that I will be a part of coordinating the education with other missionary kids who are at our same location.

Q: What about Sam? Will he be able to get everything he needs?

A: Of course, this is one of our main concerns with our move. Through the last two years, we have been going after as much as possible. Things like physical therapy, occupational therapy, speech therapy, music classes, and social learning opportunities. These early years are critical to his development, which is why we are glad we’re not moving sooner. Educationally, I will be able to meet most of his future needs, which may, at times, require assistance from the many resources and contacts I’ve accumulated since my undergrad days. Physically, we’ll see how he does. We plan to wait and see what resources we’ll have at the hospital in our area, because physical and occupational therapists may be available. If they are not, Nairobi, the capital of Kenya, is quite advanced and will surely have further options for him, if necessary. However, if we do run into a time when we feel Sam needs more than we can offer him through any of these routes, it will be possible for us to return to Minnesota to concentrate on specific needs. It helps tremendously that we are not going into this without guidance. We are in contact with multiple families who are currently or have recently raised children with special needs on the mission field. I think it will always be a learning experience for us as parents, but we have the confidence that God has called us to this unique path and that He will continue to guide us.

Do you have more questions? Feel free to comment on this post or on our Facebook page & I’ll try to get them answered.

 

After years of praying and dreaming, this is a huge step toward Kenya. Please continue to pray for us as we move forward. We can not make this move without your prayers and support!

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Diet Dew in a Paper Cup

I realized this weekend that there’s nothing like celebrating Mother’s Day when knee-deep in the real-life feelings of being a mama. I took the kids to La Crosse for a dear friend’s wedding. In mama-planning fashion, I packed our bags, downloaded a new movie and a few educational games on the iPad, carefully planned snacks, and put the kids in cozy clothes for the long drive. Google Maps told me it would be four hours. Google Maps doesn’t travel with kids, though, when four hours can easily turn into six. A quick potty stop can turn into a full-blown meltdown with a mess of cookies from head to toe, a potty accident, and an exploded diaper soaking through all layers of clothing and filling a car seat. Does it sound like I’ve been through it before? Heck yes, I have. More than once. So I’ve learned to tack on an extra hour or two to any Google Maps ETA.

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We actually managed to avoid any major catastrophes on the trip down. We did not, however, avoid major road construction. One detour added a complete hour to our driving time. Score one for the mama who really did leave two hours early! By the time we got to La Crosse, we were able to stop at the hotel to change into wedding clothes and curl Ella’s hair. I made sure to allow more extra time between the hotel and wedding site, which was good since we hit another detour! We eventually made it to the wedding hotel, squeaked into the last available parking space, and ran inside as the clock struck 4:30. Hot dang, mama! We made it!

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Despite the hour-plus of detours, I felt pretty on top of my game as we walked in for the ceremony. Before we entered the ceremony room, Ella spotted the bride, looking absolutely gorgeous in hear silk, beaded dress. After examining her for a moment, Ella turned to me with a deeply sad expression before saying, “You know why I’m crying, Mama? It’s because she’s so beautiful!” Oh, Ella. So sweet and so overly dramatic. Exactly how I love you.

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We quietly took a few of the open seats near the back of the room where my parents, my brother, and his wife sat. A sense of accomplishment coursed through me as I sat, quite put-together, and pulled out crackers for Sam at the exact moment he began getting antsy. My hair was carefully curled and I was wearing a new dress that was perfect for the occasion.

And then it hit. First it was Ella desperately needing to go to the bathroom. Then, I realized I had an enormous hole and multiple runs down the front of my nylons. A moment later, Sam filled his diaper and stunk up the back few rows of seats. And then, as we were standing at the end of the ceremony, Sam caught his little hand in the front of my never-worn-before dress and ripped a big hole in the top layer right across my chest. I escaped quickly to the bathroom, but there wasn’t a lot I could do to fix it. I tried, but it ended up looking a bit like a superhero emblem. Appropriate, perhaps, for how I was feeling after getting my kids to the wedding on time, but not quite the look for a wedding. Before you say it doesn’t look that bad, I’ll tell you that it looks much better in the picture than it did in real life.

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The cardigan wasn’t quite the right size to button up, but it had to pull through for the occasion. It did just fine, I thought, and I simply looked like I was wearing all black the rest of the night. Until Sammy’s little food-covered hands spread dinner down one shoulder, but I honestly didn’t care by that point. And you know what? We all had a great time! I got to sit with my family and laugh and dance and watch Ella run with the other kids and do the chicken dance with the bride and groom, and I completely enjoyed it.

When it started getting late, we all drove to our hotel in Winona for a big ol’ slumber party. Ella was thrilled. After she finally fell asleep, so was I. When I woke Sunday morning, I was sharing a bed with the girl who made me a mama nearly five years ago and my own mama was in the other bed. A perfect start to Mother’s Day. And then my mom handed me this, and I was practically in heaven.

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Diet Mountain Dew. In a Super 8 paper cup. Cheap joy right there, baby. Diet Dew has always been the drink of my family. Not just my immediate family, I mean my entire extended family. We even had it specially served at our wedding. My mom poured me a cup first thing that morning, and we were really celebrating. Then we all went down for continental breakfast.

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Ella loves hotel breakfasts!

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She then presented her Mother’s Day present for Nana – a stepping stone she made all by herself. I might need to have her make one for me, too. I love it!

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We packed up and parted ways shortly after breakfast. The weather was near 70, which we couldn’t get enough of, so we sat right down in the parking lot to enjoy it a bit longer.

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As a little Mother’s Day treat to myself, I took the kids to Target so I could buy new earrings before meeting up with friends.

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How handsome is this little guy in his bow tie?!

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After Target, we headed back to the wedding hotel to meet up with my dear friends, the Larsons. They are the reason I was so excited for the weekend. Jen Larson and I were absolutely best friends all through high school. We hung out at each others houses like they were our own and often called the others mom Mom. Because we’ve both moved a lot since high school and having babies and changing jobs and what not, Jen and I had not seen each other in ten years! Two years ago she was even in Duluth but you know what I was doing? Having a baby! Yes, that very night, the only few hours she was able to spend in Duluth I just happened to be in labor with Sam, so I didn’t get to see her. As soon as I got the invitation to her younger sister’s wedding, I cleared my calendar and set up plans to make it happen, because I was definitely going to see her this time. And I did! Jen, her mom, and her little sister, Amy, and their middle sister (the bride) Kendra, oogled over Ella & Sam all Sunday afternoon.

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Jen just sent me this photo, the one that will hang next to our high school picture that still has a spot in my parent’s camper. I put it up when I lived in their old camper for a summer during college. They even moved it to their new camper when they traded up a couple years ago. I will surely be planning a trip to northern California before our move to Kenya! And Jen, you can always visit us in the warmth of Africa.

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Such a great weekend could not be ruined by a terribly long drive home. Sam was not happy in his car seat. He made it known every time I tried buckling him in. I was stuck between continuing to drive so we could get home sooner or stopping to give him a break every now and then. I kind of went half and half. Next week our little guy will be getting a forward-facing car seat! I think that will change long rides for him. I’m excited to see him in a big seat!

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I hope you had a very good Mother’s Day, whether it was a day to celebrate you or to celebrate another mama in your life. I was so happy to hug my own mom on her special day!

 

 


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I {heart} my mom!

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at the Minnesota State Fair with my mom & Mama Bex in early 2000s

Happy Mother’s Day, friends! I’m so happy that I got to see my very own mama this morning. We traveled to a wedding yesterday and had a big old slumber party at a hotel together last night. So fun to be served a cold cup of Diet Dew in a paper hotel cup right out of bed this morning by my mom. We always drink Diet Dew together, no matter the hour. A perfect start to the day!

As I prepare to travel the four hours (or possibly six – depending on the kids) back to Duluth today, I wantd to share a few fun moments I’ve had with my mom. There are so many more photos I’d like to post, but I’m on my iPad this morning, and I’ve only got access to a few options. Nonetheless, these are special.

before my wedding – 2007

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with a brand new Ella – 2009

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Minnesota State Fair with Ella

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with Ella when Sam was born – 2012

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Nana & a wee Sammy

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with my brother at is wedding a year ago. Isn’t she beautiful?

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To all of you mamas – in whatever way you happen to be a mama – I hope you get to enjoy today.  Sending my love to you!


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Photo Friday

My beautiful girl. I can’t get over this picture. It captures so much of her personality. Princess dress, mama’s shoes, sweet smile that’s still a little sassy. Oh, I love her.

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And guess what? Sammy got a hair cut! He was in desperate need. He did amazingly well sitting during the trim. I learned pretty early that he needs something to eat while they do the cut, so this time we went with a cookie per hand. He was a very satisfied little boy. And he pretty much had the whole place melting over him.

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A little before and after action. How handsome is he?! IMG_2507

 

 a small collection of this week’s favorite photos taken on my phone

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{inspired} From Scripture

Oh, my dear friends, we have completed our mission application! Pete & I submitted the last pieces of our full applications last week and are now preparing to fly to the mission headquarters for a weekend of getting to know each other and face-to-face interviews. We’ll be going with the other half of our team, Eli & Krista, while all littles but baby Kai stay behind. We believe we’ll find out if we’re accepted with this organization around the end of May, at which time we’ll share the name of the organization. To know we’re moving ahead with our dreams of Africa in this way is incredibly exciting! We’ll keep you posted on news as it comes our way.

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For the past two weeks, I have been loving Hidden In My Heart, a gift we chose for the kids on Easter. I discovered it on Amazon while looking at other music and was intrigued by the simple description ‘a lullaby journey through scripture.‘ I’ve wanted something to play in the kids’ room at night, so we decided to try it. I can now tell you that I am so in love with the music on this disc that I have kept it in the car so we can all listen to it together. It has the feel of a beautifully orchestrated soundtrack with all lyrics drawn from Scripture. I will eventually put it in the kids’ room where it can surround them in Scripture as they drift to sleep, but for now, it’s serving the good purpose of calming my antsy littles as we drive. It would make a beautiful gift for the little ones in each of our lives!

Disclosure: I was not compensated for the content of this post in any way. All opinions are my own.


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An Engagement & Easter

I’m so excited, you guys! My sister – Mama Bex – is engaged!! Mr Adam Olson popped the question last Friday night and, of course, she said yes!

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I could not be happier for them! And guess what…my dear sister asked me to be her Matron of Honor. Ahhh! I just love weddings and everything about them, and I adore party planning, so this is that much more exciting. I have to admit, though, I kinda wish I could be called the Maid of Honor. I think it sounds so much better than Matron. Matron just sounds old. But never mind, there is a wedding to plan! And plan we will, as these two loves will be getting hitched in just three months on July 19 in Nisswa, the quaint little resort town where we all grew up. It’s true, Adam went to high school with us. I graduated with his sister, Becky graduated a year after us, and Adam was the next year. Becky and Adam reconnected on Facebook last year and have become best friends. We’re all thrilled he’ll be joining the family! And yes, once again, I will be sharing the same last name with my darling little sister. Angie & Becky Scott will soon be Angie & Becky Olsen/Olson. It’s just like our grandma and her sister who had a double wedding and both went from Anderson to Johnson. Yay for another wedding in the family!

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