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An Easter Sunday

We had a quiet, cozy little Easter celebration at our house this year. Pete was on call delivering wee Easter babies all day. I woke shortly after he left for the hospital in the hopes of joining my sister at the earliest church service. Alas, 7:30 proved to be too early for my snail pace. I had good intentions. I had planned about a week before that Ella would wear an adorable daisy dress my mom had given her and Sam would wear a little button-up and khakis. They were dressed with hair brushed, looking bright-eyed for the big day when I realized I hadn’t given a moment’s thought to what I would wear. Good heavens, why must we even make such decisions?! I was so successful getting them ready that I had no remaining creative energy to figure out what I would wear. I quickly vetoed jeans due to the nice occasion. I briefly considered dress pants until I realized I didn’t have any pressed shirts. Then I flipped through hangers of dresses until I came across one that actually fits at the moment. It was a winner. I tossed my hair up in a messy bun, got the kids in the car, and did my makeup in the church parking lot. By this time it was a few minutes after 8, so I jokingly told the nursery attendants I thought the service started at 8. Oh well, we all ended up at church and that was the goal. Go team.

The entire service was beautiful. I discovered this when I decided to stay for the 9 o’clock service with Eli & Krista. Easter is probably my favorite time to be at church. There is a joyfulness that can be felt through kind smiles, big families, and bright new dresses. It Christmas things feel a bit more rushed and stressful. On top of that, the promise we are reminded of at Easter is incredible. I am completely humbled by God’s goodness to us.

After church, I took the kids home for naps and to prepare an Easter meal. Eli, Krista, and Caleb joined us for a very relaxed afternoon of eating, naps, and an indoor egg hunt. There was just way too much snow to have it outside. Although, it may have been fun to throw the eggs out in the yard and watch Ella tromp through the thigh-high snow to get each of them. She probably would have loved it!

She was pretty hilarious looking for the two dozen eggs I hid in the living and dining rooms. There was a high-pitch squeal and a little dance with every discovered egg. Envision that doubled each time she found two hidden side-by-side. Seriously, the girl has some good egg discovering moves.

The plan yesterday had included dying eggs, but we didn’t quite make it that far, so this afternoon Ella and I worked together to color a basket of them.

She was quite focused while working and only cracked one egg. I think it may have been a bit intentional, though.

 At one point I had the idea to get out the glue and googley eyes, so we made a little family. I was really impressed with Ella’s drawing skills! She made two of the three!

Little Man had a good time next to the table while we worked.  Currently, this is his favorite thing to do. He’s kind of a pro.

We hope your family had a very happy Easter.

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Last Wednesday, Sam had a very quick procedure to put tubes in each of his ears. We were at the hospital at 7am and were home by 10:30am. He was a champ. Most kids have multiple ear infections before considering tubes, but Sam didn’t have a single one that we’re aware of. Instead, we were hoping that his very low hearing skills would improve by clearing out fluid that had built up in his ear. In the end, the doctor was able to remove a lot of gunk, and boy oh boy, have we seen a change. He’s now responding when we talk to him and even turns to see us when we make noise. Those are things that very rarely happened before getting his tubes. He seems happier and more engaged. We are thrilled! His hearing will be tested again in a few weeks and then we’ll do an ABR (auditory brainstem response) test to see if there are more ways we can continue to improve his hearing. We want to do as much as possible so that he can hear well during his early stages of speech development. This has been the only health challenge we’ve encountered so far, aside from a few bouts of croup. We know that we are very blessed.

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Of course, we cannot forget that today is the day a winner of the paper bead necklace is being announced. There were 22 responses between the blog and two places on Facebook, so I compiled the list and let random.org select the winner.

As you can see, the winner is number 22… Ellen K! Yay, Ellen! I’ll get your info and have the necklace in the mail in the next couple days. Enjoy!


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Photo Friday


Ah, the return of Photo Friday. Here are a few recent clicks. Enjoy!
a mama/daughter date with my girly at “the library store” aka Barnes & Noble
 celebrating Daddy’s birthday last week

all this play is hard work!

 he loves his bouncer

cuddling with my boy on World Down Syndrome Awareness Day


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What's Up in the Kitchen

Today as I write, I’m sitting wrapped in a blanket on the couch. I don’t want to close the windows, which weren’t exactly designed to keep out cool air anyway. They are more for keeping wandering bugs out at night since there are no screens on windows here. It’s raining outside, and I love the sound of it falling on the leaves mixed with the songs of birds and rolls of thunder. Yes, it does get cool enough here to need a blanket, even in the middle of the day. It hasn’t been common during our time here, but on the afternoons when the sun is hidden by heavy rain clouds, it gets a bit chilly. I know, it’s nothing like home, which I’ve heard is more frigid right now than chilly, but it’s all relative. Many parts of Kenya get extremely hot. Fortunately, this is not one of those places. We are at about 6,500 feet here, which brings cooler air and, best of all, keeps most of the bugs away. We have mosquitos and a few flies, but that’s all I’ve seen so far. And I’m okay with that.
I’m kind of hoping it rains all afternoon. It’s a nice excuse to stay tucked inside reading books and coloring, a break from the constant running that Ella has grown accustom to. She’s funny. The moment she gets out the door, she’s off, yelling for the other kids to chase her. That girl is going to be a runner, I tell you. She just doesn’t stop. I suppose Kenya is the place to be to learn how to run! 
I’ve been thinking a lot about the questions some of you asked after my last post. I love hearing them, so please continue to ask away!
fresh eggs delivered to the door
 Obviously, daily life is very different here. I had been told before arriving that life just takes longer. Chores aren’t as quickly completed and meals take lots of preparation. Because of this, we’re fortunate to have Stella as our house help. She comes every day to help clean and cook. Yes, I could surely do the work myself. We didn’t bring much with us and our apartment is pretty small, but having her help does allow me to have the time to take care of the kids and explore our surroundings. Having house help is very common here. In fact, I’ve come to understand that it’s practically expected if you’re able to afford it. Hiring someone provides a job, and I’m all for that. 

local produce – all for less than $3.50
 Stella is wonderful. She is about my age, has a four-year-old daughter, and her English is fantastic. I’ve enjoyed having conversations with her and laughing about funny things Ella does during the day. Stella is also an amazing cook. She prepares lunch for us every day, and most days Pete gets to join us. The four of us sit at the table together and talk about the day. Sam is usually sleeping. We’ve had traditional Kenyan meals, everyday meals like baked chicken & potatoes or brown rice & beef stew, and healthy recipes I’ve found online. I’ve really enjoyed having Stella’s help during the day. Ella adores her and always mentions her during our prayers. She is certainly my closest Kenyan friend so far.
making bread & drinking chai
Ella’s loaf of fresh bread. We make this almost daily.
Meals take quite a bit more time here than in the States. Nearly everything is made from scratch. Nothing is canned and very little is packaged. Yes, it is possible to buy things canned and packaged, but they are generally more expensive (sometimes quite a bit more expensive) and not everything is available out where we live.  One example: butter. We can only purchase butter in Nairobi, the capitol. Other things that cannot be found in our town of Boment: yogurt, cheese, chips. And I’ve been told a few things that can’t be found in Kenya at all are chocolate chips, decaf coffee or tea, nuts for baking (almonds, pecans), pudding, Crystal Light, pepperoni. That’s what we’ve discovered at this point. We have plenty of fresh produce, though, and can get many other goods in town. Usually, Stella does our shopping for food. We make a list together and she walks to “the dukas,” stands nearby where food, jewelry, baskets, phone cards, and other simple good are sold. The dukas are an easy walk from our house, on the road right in front of the hospital. 
whole wheat
ground into flour
 I love the way we eat here. Never in my life has all of my food been so fresh. On Thursday, Pete came home from work with a bulging bag of pineapple, mango, and bananas, while Stella bought a couple pounds of fresh beef at the dukas. Friday we bought tomatoes and carrots, and Stella made beef stew for lunch. Yum. Friday night I had three big avocados to use, so I made avocado bread (kind of like zucchini bread), an avocado dessert (mixed with milk and honey), and a big bowl of guacamole. I had a couple flour tortillas left from lunch the day before, so I baked those and made them into chips. I really do enjoy baking and cooking here, which I do nearly every night.
boiling fresh milk that is delivered daily for about 35 cents a quart
fresh chips & guacamole, fruit smoothie, whole wheat bread
Allrecipes.com is one of my favorite resources right now. That’s where I’ve found most of the recipes I’m using here. I’ve also been using quite a few from the Sugar-Free Mom blog, which I’ve mentioned before. I’m such a fan of her site for healthy meal and snack options. I can’t get everything here, but I’ve figured out ways to work around that. I’m kind of surprising myself with all this cooking. I never cook at home! We either eat simple meals or eat food at or from the hospital. Being in residency, Pete has been getting free food for the last 2 1/2 years. I feel like a new mom part of me is coming out with each new meal I make. I’m definitely doing more of this when we get home!

homemade pizza margherita
I’m putting a post together with photos and explanations of the local dishes we’ve been eating. We thinks most of it is really good. 
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This is our friend, Betsy. She is such a sweet girl. She comes over quite often to play with Ella and adores Sam. She’s seven and goes to one of the local primary schools. Her mom is a teacher at a nearby high school and they live in the building right next to us. The building is for hospital staff, so I’m thinking her dad works at the hospital. I guess that’s a question I’ll ask today.


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And this little (pudgy, actually) man loves his baths in the kitchen sink. It’s a little easier for me to do them there rather than in the tub, but he’s not going to fit much longer. Look at him! Man oh man, do I love that boy.


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Testing, Testing…Is This Thing On?

We’ve had a hard time getting things through on the internet the last few days, so this is a test from my iPhone. Everything is going very well here. Ella tells me often that she likes ‘Acita’ a lot. She really is having the time of her life running & playing with all the kids. Sam is doing well, too. We all are. I’m hoping we can get some photos through soon. I have a house tour all ready to share. But first, let’s see if this one works.


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Amsterdam


We’ve made it to Amsterdam! It’s 7am here but about midnight our time. Ella hasnt slept at all yet but is doing very well. We have one more 8 or 9 hour flight that will leave in a couple hours. …Wait. Funny story. I was writing this and had to stop because Ella got wedged between the wall and a bench. Maybe not such a funny story, but now that she’s free, it is. Pete had to go deal with a baggage issue, so I had to get her out. All is now okay! So off we go for our final flight. {photo of Ella in Minneapolis, post written on my iphone}


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All Our Bags Are Packed, We're Ready to Go

That’s nearly true. Ella seems to be the most ready of all of us. The poor girl is so excited to leave, she doesn’t know what to do with herself! I told her yesterday that she would have four more sleeps and then we would leave. The first thing she said to me this morning when she came out of her room was that she slept four times during the night and she was ready to go. Weeeellll, that’s not exactly what I meant. 

photo taken by my friend Zaundia

But now we have three more sleeps, soon to be two. Unbelievable. We’re nearly finished packing as of last night. We get to take six 50-pound bags to check, but at the end of our packing we had only filled two. (We prefer to travel light.) So then we got to have fun. Pete and I went to Sam’s Club and Target armed with the lists we were given of things the missionaries and nationals have requested than can’t easily be purchased in Kenya. We filled our carts with chocolate chips, decaf tea and coffee, almonds, and lots of candy bars and Crystal Light. Then we picked up some baby items from one of the hospitals nearby to fill the remaining bags.

old man Sammy (sweater from Goodwill, onsie by mama)

I find it hard to believe that our bags are already packed. I had hoped this would be the case, but I honestly didn’t think we would really be able to do it. The last thing I want is to be crazy stressed and rushed right before we leave. We’re steadily making our way through our lists of to-dos, hoping we don’t forget anything. I’m trying to keep track of everything we’re packing and prepping so that we’ll have record of it for our future trips. There really is a lot to think about. Passports need to be accompanied by birth certificates and extra passport photos, just in case. All of those documents need to be copied and saved online so we can access them anywhere. We need to carry some cash, but there are rules about what kind of cash will be accepted in country. For example, bills must be crisp and printed in only the last few years. Our mail needs to be held, but the post office will only hold it for 30 days. Instead, we need to have it forwarded weekly to another address, which is actually better, we’ve realized, because they can then check through it for important documents. And what about our fish Tyrone and the plant that I have actually managed to keep alive for just over 2 1/2 years? We’re so thankful to have friends and family who can help us keep things straight…and alive…while we are away.

loving on the banana cream pie at Duluth Grill

Our journey will begin at the Duluth airport on Sunday at noon. We’ll fly to Minneapolis, then to Amsterdam, and finally to Nairobi. It takes about 24 hours in all with layovers. We’ll stay the night at the mission guesthouse in Nairobi and then be driven four hours out to Tenwek Hospital where we’ll settle into our two-bedroom apartment and begin soaking in all we can. It’s hard to even imagine what it will be like. We’ll know soon enough!

she loves her hot chocolate with sprinkles

Will you please continue to pray with and for us? Here are a few specific requests:

  • We need to finalize everything here at home.
  • We’d like to have a day of rest on Saturday so we have the energy and patience necessary for the long journey on Sunday.
  • We really don’t want to be sick! Ella & Sam both have stuffy noses right now, and we’re hoping that is the extent of it. 
  • We hope the flights will be smooth for all four of us.
  • Our transition into the Kenyan culture will definitely be a big one. We want to remain open and flexible during our first few weeks.
  • Pete & I really desire to be strong together during this transition. We’ve never done anything like this together before. Please pray that we’ll be filled with a whole lot of grace for each other and that we’ll feel very close to one another.

This is what I’ve wanted to do my entire life. No joke. The entire thing. Even though that gives me great confidence it what we are about to do, I’m still a bit nervous. I’ve never been to Africa and I’ve never done something like this with kids. All I can say is that I am thrilled to live life knowing a God who cares about my family enough to put these dreams on our hearts and make ways for them to happen. I will never stop being amazed.

We will post updates when we are able, so please continue to check back! We’ll also be updating our Facebook page, which you can find by clicking HERE.

Blessings, Friends!





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