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{inspired} to celebrate St Valentine’s Day

We finally took down our Christmas tree yesterday, so I’ve been doing a little decorating for Valentine’s Day. I don’t usually do much, but I like to have a few things on the mantle and the kitchen window sill for each season. I needed a little inspiration and started thinking back to what I’ve done in the past when I remembered our Valentine party two years ago.

For our first ever Valentine’s Day party, Pete and I invited a few couples over, hired a babysitter for the wee ones, and had a Valentine’s party in Paris. Well, Paris in northern Minnesota. We used our imaginations.

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I made a few decorative pieces to hang from the ceiling that were made completely of cupcake papers. I tend to have a lot of those around. You can find the tutorial and a whole lot of other fun ideas on my Pinterest Valentine board.

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I also made a raspberry rose cake, though we ended up sending it home with our friends in to-go boxes since we were so filled with fondue!

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I keep this mannequin in the corner of our dinning room, changing it every couple months. I often have a cute pink, half apron my great grandma made. For the party, I decorated it with old jewelry from my grandma and vintage postcards. Here’s the secret for finding perfect postcards for decorating: make your own! If I get a chance, I’ll whip up a little tutorial of how to make them. They are very easy and add a great touch for parties or simple seasonal decorations.

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Looking back, I see I didn’t do much to the mantle. I tend to have the mantel as a center piece now, and change it about once a month just by rotating decorations like picture frames and candles from the nearby bookshelves. I did make a small sort of bunting using a piece of twine and miniature clothespins.

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Around both the dining room and living room, I hung strings of paper doilies, which I still have hanging in the dining room. These are incredibly simple and inexpensive to make. Cut a string the length of your window or hanging space and fold various sizes of paper doilies in half over the string. Use a little glue to secure the two halves together, and you’re finished! I’ve hung the bunting for Valentine’s Day, Ella’s birthday parties, my sister-in-law’s wedding shower, and at Christmas. (Paper doilies can be found at craft stores in the baking section.)

 

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For beverages, we served champagne and sparkling cider with a strawberry. The sparkling cider was quite necessary as I believe four of the five of us women were either pregnant or nursing. I was pregnant with Sam at the time! While we were sipping and dipping our fondue, we read the story of how Valentine’s Day first came about. I had never heard the actual story! (find it here – the first section)

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Unfortunately, I don’t have any pictures of the actual fondue since I was so involved with conversation and eating as soon as the fondue was ready. But here’s the bread. I’ll let you just imagine the cheese fondue. While looking for recipes, I came across a fun fondue tradition, or so that’s what the story said. Apparently, if someone drops their bread or fruit or dessert into the fondue pot, they have to kiss the person next to them. Of course, we just stuck with significant others, which added a little fun to the party.

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We followed the cheese with an incredible dark chocolate fondue. Yum. Yum. Yum.

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Basically the entire party centered around eating at the dining room table. It was wonderful. We had hoped to make it an annual event, but so far it doesn’t look like that will be happening. Not yet, at least. Last year we celebrated the holiday with all of our new missionary friends and a big pot luck on a basketball court outside the hospital in Kenya. This year, I’ll be in Arizona with my mom for the week. Kinda sad I’ll be missing Valentine’s Day with my little lovies…and the man of the house…but I’m looking forward to a short getaway. We’ll make this party happen again, eventually, even if we’re in Africa when we do!

Do you have any Valentine traditions? I think I should start one or two this year since Ella is at a good age for that now. I’d love to hear your ideas in the comment section below!


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{inspired} To Get Organized

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Yet again, I am surrounded by heaps and heaps of stuff. Didn’t I just clean this room? And I’m not talking like I cleaned it at the beginning of the week. I mean, didn’t I clean it this morning? How in the world is everything spilling out around me again? All I can say is that once upon a time, I was organized. And then I entered junior high, and I’m pretty sure I haven’t felt all together organized since.

This feeling of not ever being quite all the way organized is something I want to overcome this year. My Pete was incredibly organized when I met him. Well, that may be an understatement. The first time I was hanging out at his house before we were dating was for a big Friday night dinner he used to have with a group of about 30 random people every other week. (It’s true. He would start talking to the guy who sold him his phone and invite him over for dinner along with the guy he met at the gym and a few other people from church and others from work. I met some cool people at those dinners.) Anyway, he asked me to grab something out of his linen closet, and when I did, I was shocked. Was this not supposed to be a single guy’s bachelor pad? Apparently I was mistaken because on each shelf, he had bottles of cleaning solution lined up so each label was clearly visible, pencils perfectly resting side-by-side, and tubes of Chapstick organized by height. He eventually threw in the towel on converting me to sublime organization. Over time we accumulated more stuff and had a couple kids and now I’m pretty sure he believes it’s an absolutely hopeless concept. But it’s not!

I am beyond tired of spending 30 minutes looking for something that I’m pretty sure I saw somewhere yesterday. I don’t want to continue to cover my dining room table with piles of incoming mail because I don’t have a system of what to do with it after it gets opened. And I am over feeling anxious when peeking into a closet or a room because of its chaotic state. I know there is help to be found, and I want it now.

In search of some organization inspiration over the weekend, I went right to the expert ideas on Pinterest, as I usually do. I’ve been gathering ideas for a few months and pinning them in my Organize & Simplify board, but I took it further and went from site to site to actually learn how to do some of the tips. I was specifically looking for ideas that might actually be do-able. (I know I’m not the only one who sees most of the stuff on Pinterest and thinks, “There’s no way I have time or money for that!”) I found some really great ideas! So, here are a few of the tips and tricks I’ve found that I’ve either already tried with success or that I think are realistic in my house. Maybe they will work in yours, too!

 

1. Command Center: I created a command center in the corner of our kitchen last spring. It’s been tremendously helpful for quickly filing important papers that will later be transferred to our large filing cabinet. It’s also a place I can put mail as it comes in instead of leaving it on the table.

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from Lovely Crafty Home

2. Kids’ Toys: This is another tip I’ve tried, though I’d like to organize even more of the crafts and toys like this.

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from A Bowl Full of Lemons

 

3. Pantry: I recently went through my pantry with a few red, wire baskets I found in the dollar section at Target. It just feels good to open it up and know exactly where everything is and actually be able to see it all.

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from Better Homes and Gardens

 

4. Shoe organizer: I love these clear shoe organizers for sorting in a small space. I have two hanging on doors in our basement. One is filled with my office stuff and the other is filled with Ella’s crafty stuff. I’ve used them for a couple years. Super helpful!

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5. Linen closet: Clear bins and baskets have transformed our linen closet. I don’t have ours labeled, but perhaps that day will come.

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from Ask Anna

6. Car trash: I am awful when it comes to keeping my car clean. I can blame it on the kids, but it’s way more my fault than theirs. A few months ago I tried this little trick and have managed to keep the garbage on the floor to a minimum! I empty it at the gas station when I’m filling up. It’s a cereal container and I use a plastic produce bag inside.

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from Better Homes and Gardens

7. Tips & Motivation: Organization Junkie is FILLED with organizational tips. I feel super motivated when I visit her site. I’m hoping to actually work through her 52 Weeks of Organizing.

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from Organization Junkie

 

There are times I get super motivated to clean & organize, but sometimes, by the time I get the kids in bed, the feeling has left. Because of that, I’m determined to work on getting organized a little bit every week either during naps or while Ella’s at school. I do LOVE being organized, but sometimes it’s a challenge!

Do you feel organized? What’s your favorite organizational tip? Leave a comment below! Your ideas might really help this house of mine!

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{inspired} to style my hair

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Before I became a mom, I vowed I would never get a ‘mom cut.’ You know, a short hair cut that comes right after having a baby so you don’t have to mess with your hair. Clearly, I didn’t have kids yet and had no idea what it’s like to try to do your hair while getting little ones ready and out the door on any kind of schedule, especially when it’s 40 below windchill (as it is today). In the 4.5 years I’ve been a mom, I still haven’t opted for short hair, but there are days I dream of it. I don’t have hair that can air dry and hang beautifully down my back. It frizzes out in a puff that is far from attractive. Instead, I tend to adopt an incredibly simple hair style and stick to it every. single. day. The style changes every few months, but it’s never too creative. Currently, I’m fairly in love with the top or back knot style to keep little fingers from pulling my hair and to avoid spending more than 30 seconds styling it.

Exhibit A: (yes, those are bubbles!)

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This New Years, however, I set a new goal for myself. I am going to actually try to do something different to my hair two times each week. I’m certainly no expert in the hair department so I did what any woman would do in such a situation. I went straight to YouTube. While Pete was working one night last week of 2013, I spent a a couple hours watching styling tutorials. The great thing was that they weren’t all done by high school girls who can afford to spend over an our on their hair on any given day!

Once I stumbled upon The Simple Things Blog and videos, I was hooked and completely inspired. Kate, a blogger, brand new mama and a Christian, breaks everything into steps and makes things realistically manageable! This is a recent post of her favorite quick hair styles. I made a list of the most common products and tools she used and ran to Target the next day. That night I tried many of the styles and, sadly, realized my hair is a bit too long for most of what she does.

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I learned some great techniques, though, and used a couple of them while doing my hair for New Year’s Eve.

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I should have taken the pictures before going out and in better lighting. Hard to juggle kids in a big winter coat and scarf and still keep the hair looking finished. I was very happy with it, though! It sort of swept to the right and was all woven together.

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I’ve been putting together a Pinterest board for hair ideas and tutorials. Some I’ve tried and some I haven’t. Be sure to let me know if you find any you like! I’m going to do my very best to do something different to my hair each week. One week in and I’m still on track!

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I mentioned at the end of 2013 that Pete and I would actually be going out for New Years. It was amazing! And yes, I did go with false lashes (the first time ever while not being on stage), as seen here:

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After taking the kids to my sister’s place, Pete and I saw a beautiful performance by the Duluth Superior Symphony Orchestra. All of the songs were from Broadway or old Hollywood, complete with two singers/dancers who have quite the history performing on Broadway. I was in love! Then we went to Blackwater, a martini bar downtown, for dinner and drinks until the big countdown. Not great lighting, but I’m glad we got at least one photo. The night was exactly what I had hoped!

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Enjoy this brand new week!

 


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